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May 17, 2008

check yourself

Some outfits from yesterday. My exams are this week and I'm trying to cram my brain with Textile Testing for Monday but it is not working. We went shopping instead and I got a few things in the Topshop sale, where I saw a Christopher Kane dress, and some false lashes, which I wore last night to the 'bop'. I watched loads of YouTube videos about the best way to apply them and they all said you should do makeup first, but it would have been much easier to apply them to a clear background instead of an eyelinered one. Whenever I wear my Paraphernalia necklace I get stopped by British Heart Foundation charity workers! And almost all the studs feel off my shoes. Maybe some super glue will do. I can't wait to go out again!

May 15, 2008

mary jane stars in horror flick


I loved Rodarte, you love Rodarte, we all love Rodarte, the FW08/09 collection was sublime. It's awe-inspiring how you can translate Japanese horror flicks onto wispy dresses and hacked up tights. But the shoes, oh the shoes, are the ultimate lust. I don't want to sound moony but the collection was so divine, I have to get my shabby paws on it or in the least, recreate something inspired. My slap-dash attempt could be an insult but I've been staring at my heels for weeks pondering studs. Big, giant, pointy studs.


I've been scouring eBay and Etsy but to no avail and planned to hit the goth/emo Oasis Market in Birmingham but it struck me that Affleck's Palace in the Northern Quarter had it's fair share of studded belts and bead shops. So today I trekked down there, making my best attempt to avoid the still drunk and rowdy Rangers supporters (I think they thought my hair shared their Scottish roots!). I went into an arcade with a few small shops where I'd got a hair bow before in a bead shop. The guy showed me some silver studs that just weren't big enough and I was ideally after some coloured ones. I asked him if I should check out Affleck's Palace and he said "...this is Affleck's Palace?" Oops, silly me for not realising there are a thousand entrances to it! He recommended the fabric store to I went there but they only had flat studs. So I walked back and went into another AP entrance, straight into an emo corner complete with a hair bow wall that rivals even my collection! I tore myself away though and they had silver cone studs in different sizes and some knobbly ones and flat ones. They were 50p each and I had £6 on me so I got 12 of the largest cone ones, which came with screws.



You may have noticed that I've worn these Miss Selfridge heels a hell of a lot because they've got a high, chunky heel and low straps. I was a bit dubious about putting holes in them but popped into the store today and saw a whole shelf of pairs, so if I ruined them and still wanted them, I could get another. Also after many dirty clubs, they're a bit worn anyway.



I used some pins to put holes in the suede but none of them made an impact and I didn't want to make them too big as the studs might have just fallen out once screwed together as the diameters were the same. Luckily I've got a few Architecture friends who have great supplies of Uhu glue (pronounced yoo hoo!) which is a strong enough adhesive to just stick the studs and move them around while still sticky.



Easy! The shoes are great, I'll pop back and get some little flat studs to put round the bottom and maybe some flat ones for the remaining straps too! If I see any cheap mary janes anywhere I'll nab them if I can, as a white pair with white studs would be too cool. I doubt they'd stick if someone stepped on your foot and I have a feeling some bouncers might not take to them but they feel fierce but angelic all at the same time, fab!

from the tree to the chair


Two totally different ways to use ribbon, two fabulous looks!


It's weird when two different designers strike upon the same thing. Alber Elbaz said he considered how a chair was made out of wood from a tree, yet a chair could be made out of a tree, so why not skip the fabric step. The Lanvin F/W08/09 collection was made out of metres and metres of grosgrain ribbon, which is almost an evolution of tiers or ruffles. I can't decide whether this makes the clothes more imitable, as sewing strips of ribbon together could prove easier to experiment with than straight forward fabric, or whether this mark of technical genius is a form I would even be able to contemplate! To go down the easy route, an inky ribbon tied round the neck with huge, statement jewellery could be your signal to the collection.


Luella went down the opposite route by adding colourful satin ribbons to a strapless dress and letting them flow free to wave and flutter as you walk. There's also a fabulous ribboned clutch. This is far more easier to copy with a black dress but would it look like a strange school project? On Alexa Chung or Daisy Lowe it would be a stunning yet fun poke at a party dress but on the street would it be a bit silly? I have a few black dresses floating around and totally intend to experiment. Maybe if the colours weren't rainbow? Or maybe patterned ribbon all of the same colour could work? I know when I'm faced with a wall of ribbon I won't know what to choose! I just want the airy movement...


May 13, 2008

that's hot

The weather won't last so I'm making the most of it! Sometimes it's nice to be able to wear one singular thing without thinking about the rest. Hot weather is a little weird still as everyone tries to make the most of it by letting their revision blow across the courtyard when attempting to make it more bearable in the sunlight, or parading their sunburn. Then at night people boycott the bar and drink outside. This was the scene at 6am on Saturday morning when a fire alarm woke me up.

Much worse up close! So here's a few outfit shots I can now collect with the free revision time. I'm relishing in wearing summer dresses that make me feel happy as they've lasted more than a season! Guilt free dressing is key with the very last dregs of the student grant.

Vintage floral dress via eBay, office flats, checked ribbon in hair, Topshop unicorn necklace

Topshop heart sunglasses (originally bought to sell as last year I sold about ten pairs for £50 each! But with the hot weather and us finally going on a family holiday I thought I'd keep them!), Charity shop dress.

Vintage Laura Ashley sailor top via eBay, H&M striped skirt, Topshop patent strap flats. I like stripes on stripes, it makes me feel a bit like a clown in a circus. Big and baggy is the only thing to wear on a hot day like this!

the omnipresent dress

No God didn't send me this dress but he sure put a million on the planet! I didn't have my thinking hat on when I bought this checked puffball dress from Primark and now I've seen it literally everywhere, from lectures to clubs to the street, and so have only worn it a grand total of once! Remember when the a dinner lady said she had the same dress as me? That's why I'm not buying from Primark again! On Friday I was wearing my vintage  polka dot dress 50's dress and she said 'I have that dress at home... but I'm too fat to fit into it!' I think she is nuts! She also loads my plate and tells me I never eat anything. She doesn't see me eating five Milky Ways right about now!

Anyway, I had a free evening and was trying to decide what to wear tomorrow. I felt like I have nothing to wear which usually means I need a little hunt and found the dress, thinking what a waste of money. I whipped our my sewing machine, or rather spent about an hour threading it, and altered the neckline by just cutting a slit in the middle and folding the triangles behind, then sewing. Then I cut off the bow and sewed the corners and middle at the top to the neckline and voila! Bye bye carbon copy, hello new sweetheart dress!

May 12, 2008

AA does ebay

Spotted: American Apparel model on ebay?

I was browsing around today and spotted a familiar looking model. I knew American Apparel has a vintage store on Sunset Boulevard and sell sunglasses on the site but it seems now they've hit eBay. I thought they'd just snagged the model but the AA side project, California Select, has stores all over the place now and the website says a store is coming to London soon! If not more proof that vintage is the height of hipster, the clothes are accompanied from the original AA store as suggestions to wear too. The clothes on offer are OK but nothing special. Advertising basic clothing in a simple way with hot models in slightly pornographic poses sells, but with vintage people want something special and not too cool and nonchalant to show off. Bids are high though so I'd keep your eyes on this shop, it could become a major seller with the right items.

hey mr postman

I forgot to say when I began, I've started fashion blogging for the Birmingham Post. The posts are a bit more to do with Birmingham and less about er, me! You can subscribe to the feed if you want more stuff to read each day, not that your blogrolls mustn't be full already, I'm reading 250 blogs, eek! I'm  going to order and add some more onto my links list too so if you're not on there but want to be, just ask!

May 10, 2008

forget the spanx...

Some random eBay browsing caused me to stumble upon this auction from Bunny's Vintage Boutique for a vintage girdle.

Despite the strange fringe, the look is really cool! It's a bit risky but then again recent corset experiments have proven that one can be worn in the daytime with no worries, so maybe a suspender girdle could be fab for a night out? It may get a few stares and I wouldn't recommend wearing it with stockings, a slip or bare legs. I like just the plain wifebeater and cool coloured tights. I'm watching a few but sizing is a little confusing, especially as I have a small waist but er, a big booty and need one long enough to cover it!

I like the patterned ones as they look a little more like clothing but the classic vintage cream and coral colours attract me the most.

Frilly, white, floral.

a patchy trend

Since Coco Rocha Irish danced on the Jean Paul Gaultier runway, it seems plaid and tartan are cemented in F/W runways. It always appears on the winter catwalks and high streets don't often take to it. Maybe this year a little bit of plaid will go a long way?

I love DSquared's sexy librarian theme and now definitely plan on wearing my pleated tartan school girl skirt with a buttoned up shirt, little leather gloves and fishnets. There's no harm in getting some plaid material and adding a bow to a summer white dress to bring it into Autumn. Once I saw a girl on my course in a year above me with really low slung, baggy yet tight checked trousers (a bit like jodhpurs), probably from All Saints, which looked seriously cool. I'm not up for getting a tartan jacket and dress and tights though so may give D&G a miss!

Checks and tartan are notably different but still in the same family, although I'll probably go down the Luella gingham route. I thought I'd save you the pictures because, like this season, Luella will probably be alllll over the Autumn high street! I prefer the McQueen checked trousers to the plaid Dolce and Gabbana pair.

I do want a bit of patchwork-like check, with a mixture of chalky colours like at Tao or warm colours teamed with leather leggings at Sass and Bide. Yep, definitely on the hunt for some fabric like that. And how fab is that Tao scarf! The black lipstick totally tops it off.

May 09, 2008

the fashion showdown

Like I said yesterday, I went to see my friends in the textiles school fashion show that they organised and starred in. It's very depressing that my course wasn't part of it, especially as I have so many lectures with their subjects. But I know I would be so nervous to walk in front of five hundred people at a time! If you're coming to Manchester this year and are doing FTR or DMFR, brace yourself!

So groups were each assigned an SS08 trend and had to design and make a main piece from scratch, then create their own outfits. My friends had to practise for weeks as it's part of their coursework and at first were horrified that they had to do routines and be models themselves. From the sounds of their worries, we thought it would be cheesy dance moves or just boring walking from girls in their own clothes with a few flowers thrown on. Infact it was fabulous! Everyone made a huge effort with costumes and most really committed to their trends. I loved the hair and makeup, especially the huge eyelashes and back combed clouds. I hear they all went to MAC for makeovers, no surprises there!

To be honest, the show was better than the catwalks at The Clothes Show Live or Style in the City because they weren't lifeless or tacky and didn't try too hard to look commercial. You could look at the clothes and admire them, yet people were always moving and more would arrive and some would leave, so there was never a point when I thought 'this is just a load of students in their own clothes' or 'ok, nice clothes, bored now' like before! I've put together some of the videos, which are fairly bad quality and don't particularly do very much justice. I've grouped two shows to some videos. And I forgot to say, there are some guys on the course too! And you have a chance to see all the stunning, modelesque girls that I have lectures with every day; what a way to knock your self esteem!

The first trend was 'artistic licence', so lots of paint splatters and colour splashes. I was straight away impressed by the Dolce and Gabbana-esque dress teamed with hot pink tights! I was a bit confused at the start as the first walkers were in neon, but I know the guy and a few of the girls splattered their own clothes which gets my DIY approval!

Halfway through the video is 'stars and stripes', where I didn't see any red stripes but they had big stars in their hair similar to YSL and I loved the piece they made, which kind of reminded me of that Erin Fetherston petal skirt but in blue striped material. They also had huuuge false lashes and Kate Moss-like glittery stars on their eyes.

One of my favourites was the romantic frills and ruffles with all the butterflies and flowers. I just liked the way their outfits all complimented each other.

In the middle it switches to 'mixed bouquet', which I guess is all the flower prints, from Prada to Balenciaga. I didn't really get it at first though as their outfits weren't as prominent and for some reason they walked around reeeeally slowly. Also the boy in it seems extremely shy and really looks like he didn't want to be there, I guess it's a bit harsh that they have to do it.

This was one of the only shows with real dancing in, it's the rockabilly trend. I thought they took it a bit far with the 50's vibe when I thought the trend was more rebellious school girl style; one girl was wearing a real Pink Ladies jacket even and some had curlers in their hair. The green tartan was spot on though. I liked it when the music changed and they brought on the dresses that they made which are super fabulously inspired by the Luella versions, my friend is wearing the black and green!

I think the dress that they made for this show is by far the best! You can't tell so much but the girl is also wearing gold sequined knickers! I felt mixed about some girls who had funny gold bits on normal clothes but loved the girl with an AA dress and shiny leggings, and the girl with loads of gold makeup! I think they did a sort of metallic glamour trend.

Halfway through is the cyber floral trend with loads of feathers, colour bleeding and brights. I loved this one, check out the photos below, they totally went for it and the dress they made was marvy.

Another totally committed group was my friend Katie's group, haha I'm so biased! They had 'going global' which is similar to the eco-tech one but with lots of clashing patterns and brights. The ribbons could have been dodgy but they all looked like they were having loads of fun and I love the bright heels with clashing socks. Check out the photos below...

There were some looks that I especially liked... some cute shorts and a hair ribbon for going global, a girl in what looked like an AA U-neck dress with a Luella looking tartan skirt and braces, and the ruffled dresses...

...some kind of Rodarte FW08/09 socks that looked like wool fishnet with butterflies entwined, the hair butterflies, lots of tulle and netting, and the petal skirt.

If you can imagine lectures with so many girls, it's a bit intimidating to go up to some groups and ask for photos, but here's some of the show and a few that I was brave enough to ask to take!

May 07, 2008

wing your way to me

I've just watched the fashion show from some subjects in my uni school and it was amazing! I'm super gutted that my course wasn't involved because it turned out totally great. In groups, girls of Fashion and Textile Retailing (FTR) and Design Management for Fashion Retailing (DMFR) each had SS08 trends where they made a piece to channel it and each created their own outfit to model. My friends were fretting over it for weeks but I'll show you what it was like once I order all the footage!

Straight off the back, one group's trend that I loved was romance, with all the flowers and ruffles and, most importantly, butterflies! I'm not sure who did it but the girls had suitably coiffed, cloud hair with big butterfly pins in. I was looking for butterflies and flowers a few months ago but lost interest, until now! I've been hunting eBay and Etsy for clips alike but am having a hard time finding clips or just craft ones that aren't glittery or with gem stones.

Also similar adornments that could be flowers were seen at Christian Dior, butterflies may be the new bows! Well, if I can find some... I think Amanda from Moderniteter just got hers from a craft store. I'm looking for white like at Sonia Rykiel to wear with a vintage sheer nightgown and big corsages. Also just realised that the Topshop pink suede bow clutch was a total Rykiel rip off!

It's hard to determine the size in a photo too. I did find these clips with skulls in the centre on Etsy, which at first I didn't like, but now with the whole de-girlifying, it's starting to appeal. At least the skull wouldn't be so obvious until up close.

clockwise from left: orange fascinator, green crystal, orange on black clip, white skull

Funnily enough, just as I was typing this I looked up to my cork board of important notices (read: accessories!) and spotted the light up butterfly wings we all bought for a dressing up night. If you tie the arm elastic around your head, it makes a fabulous head band! Unfortunately they do have glitter stars and fluff on them, and they are totally massive, but it's a starting point! When I have a spare hour I'll pop into town and look in accessory shops for clips.

May 06, 2008

my fashionable life

Our house has two basements and one used to be my parents' bedroom while my brothers and sister and I shared the other one. The upstairs of the house was used as a guest house which my Mom ran. When my parents split, we got rid of the guest house and everyone moved upstairs but I stayed downstairs and went into my parents' bedroom. So one of the wardrobes is still full of family stuff, mainly being thousands of photos! My Mom was definitely snappy happy when we were growing up and if I can't sleep, I sometimes look through a few boxes. When trying to figure out why I have a girly affinity, I can see how I've been frilly and floral all my life! Here are some important snaps that must have had an effect on what I'm like now...

So in 1989 I was born! I was pretty heavy and chubby and my Mom was in labour for 36 hours after being two weeks late; I wanted to make an entrance!

I cried alot and liked my dummy. I was already interested in boys by the time I was only a few months old obviously! And I think this was my Nan's chicken, Henny Penny.

I'm embracing future trends well ahead of time, check out those ruffles and heart shaped sunglasses!

I remember having identical Minnie mouse pjs to my Mom's friend's daughter but thinking she looked much more like Minnie than I did! I wasn't cute like a fairy princess but more at home with a plastic cup on farmyard in a woolly jumper. I liked my friend Danielle's yellow bobbles with little plastic balls on the end and put one on my barbie but tangled up all her hair. My sister and I had a ton of barbie stuff and if we tidied our rooms we got a new barbie outfit each week. We also had a massive box of duplo and rationed the stuff by taking it in turns to pick our the best bits, like the cooker and beds, then spending ages setting up the houses and abandoning them!

Alot of garish 90's clothes must have made a mark because I would kill for this bow today! Also patchwork is super hot for Autumn, there is a great possibility my Nan knitted this jumper.

On Valentines day in 1991, when I was 18 months old, my sister Chloe was born! Unlike me, she had jet black hair that turned blonde, then brown. She was much quieter and smaller but we became firm friends! I'm not sure whether my Mom agreed when she found me trying to feed her smarties when a few weeks old or smothering Sudocrem all over her face after seeing mud baths on Blue Peter.

We had practically the same wardrobe, with almost all identical outfits. I hated growing out of my very own clothes because then Chloe would get them!

Check out these blue tights, bang on trend! It looks like I resembled a curtain most of the time though.

I liked reading and had a big book box with lots of stories but the only ones I can remember were about starting school and making babies! We had a book called Mommy Laid an Egg, where the mom and dad think babies come from tooth paste and under rocks, but the children have to explain to them how they're really made, how confusing is that!?

In 1993, the day after Chloe's birthday, Nathan was born! He had red hair too and was extra chubby but brought alot of Thomas the Tank Engine into the house. 

Then in 1995, three days before Chloe's birthday, thus having kids born on the 11th, 14th and 15th of February, Laurence was born! I was a big school girl by now and remember taking his scans and hand prints into school.

So then there were four! My Mom coped with four kids under six years old by tripping us out loads, my main memory of buying big drawing pads to sketch (or scribble) statues in town. My Dad was an electrician but by now became a fire fighter, which was easy to finger paint in year one. I remember him bringing home Disney videos and loading all our bikes into the car to take to the park.

To back track a bit, I went to nursery as still short and chubby. My Nan had to cut the sleeves of my dresses to fit my arms! We stayed at her house every Friday, which later moved to Saturday, and went to church every Sunday morning. I wore this blue dress practically every day to nursery and had no friends. I just played with the doll house!

We had a big dressing up box and used to put on plays for my parents to watch. I went to dance school when I was four until around thirteen so had lots of costumes from shows. I had two clown suits and loved this one! In the summer we went down to my Mom's aunties farm in Gloucester where we climbed piles of hay bales in the barns and made the geese honk. Then we drove on to Weymouth and stayed with my Nan's cousin by the sea and their two daughters, who my sister and I were later bridesmaids for. One was a nurse and I remember trying on her uniforms and feeling cool that I had the little watch and my sister had the name tag! They had the song 'all that she wants' by Ace of Base which I like to hear every time we went down and I love love loved their video of Grease 2.

Here's evidence of hand-me-downs, as I look moody on a trampoline in Weymouth and then my sister is wearing the same dress haha. I liked my new blue sunflower dress because it was a wrap around which I thought was really cool.

My sister and I needed glasses and note my sister's round, rainbow pair- hilarious! She may kill me for this. She always had a bob and I always had long hair, although my Dad use to joke we would look better with no hair like him!

Despite having no friends in nursery, I made lots in school, my best friends being a little boy called Nicholas and a girl with really curly hair called Louise. I liked the uniform but of course preferred the gingham summer dresses after Easer. 

I think big tshirts with skirts was my new uniform when dresses became too babyish. Check out the Spice Girls t-shirt with leggings, ah what a combination! Also I too had colourful, round glasses- how attractive!

When I was around eight, I said we were bridesmaids for some cousins. The first had the wedding a few days after Christmas so we wore little green velvet jackets. I remember we found some tables with clothes over the top stacked on top of each other so they were like tunnels, where we played during the boring speeches!

An important day was my First Communion where us little girls got to wear white dresses! We had to be paired up with boys to walk down the isle and I didn't like mine. I think my sister had to wear the same dress to hers, haha! Although I was jealous of her veil as I didn't have one.

I still loved dancing and took up Irish dancing, where the teacher used to hit us on the leg with our shoes if we misbehaved!

Now do remember I was a 90's kid and this stuff will possibly fashionable again in a long time... but I cannot forgive the orange velvet shirt with leggings, argh! Also the army print sheer t-shirt with matching bag, oh the horror!

On one of my birthdays we went to a theme park and in the morning the presenter on Nickelodeon had two buns on her head with plaits coming down either side. I made my Mom give me this hairstyle, even though it probably would have worked a million times better if I had afro hair too, oops. Also I couldn't miss out the denim dress, didn't everyone have one!?

Some more horror stories and crazy hair styles- nice pink trousers! With a matching cardigan! I think we were on holiday for that photo doing some sort of dance. I thought I was well cool in my new shorts and strappy top for the other photo, I think I copied the hairstyle out of Girl Talk magazine! Also check the glitter jelly sandals, I lost one of them in the sea not long after this photo was taken, what a shame!

So there you have it, around half my life in some classic outfits! There aren't many of that awkward, ugly teenage stage but I'm sure I can dig some up.

world domination

I want to crawl into a heap and forget about the horrible amount of revision and suddenly sprung coursework that's in front of me, much like a million of you across the world, but no amount of ANTM reruns can stop the fact that I have a lot of work and it's stressful to the max! Hiatus is due to all consuming evils of Microsoft Access and dyeing chemistry, neither of which interest me or are valuable in any way to my future, but alas, I need to get some decent grades to hopefully get on the year abroad scheme, etc, etc, basically I'm back, goodbye revision!

In depressive bursts, I've been visiting style.com images and gathering F/W thoughts. One colour dressing has been done before by many bloggers and eccentrics alike, some people do it every day! So it should be time to bite the bullet and pick your favourite...

Snaffling a look together with existing coloured tights and shoes could be quite easy, but muted tones would be refreshing rather than startling, a bit like an all white sterile environment, yet not so harsh.

Akris, Bottega Veneta x2, Preen

Grey washes me out a bit but I like the soft green and purples at Bottega Veneta in a loose, draping way. You could head down to All Saints to get a Preen-like outfit with loose shapes yet super tight trews and ankle boots. I long for dark hair so I could wear bright blue like at Moschino but again it doesn't suit me so much. I don't do minimal very well, but when shopping for loose, long layers, the best way to wear would be with the same colours; at least it's an excise to buy more tights!

Moschino, Undercover, Celine, Alessandro Dell'Acqua

May 01, 2008

get the pins out

You might remember this dress from when I posted about it before, and although we put a ban on going out until exams are over, we went to an indie cindy club last night and I found myself with nothing and everything to wear! I like to plan outfits ages in advance to sort of space out new ones and favourites for the right places but I didn't know where to start and picked up this dress. I've only worn it once because the neckline bugged me as it was quite high and looked a bit odd so with ten minutes to go I got a pair of scissors and cut downwards, then rolled the rest under! The inside was a loads of frayed fabric and pins but the outside looked fine! I seriously need a proper collar and cuffs set though, the ones I DIYed are a bit flimsy and I don't like wearing something from the £3 second hand store around my neck when it's been on someone else's neck like twenty years ago! It seems a waste to buy a brand new shirt though and hard to find one with a pretty collar. I'll search for lace collars in the fabric store.

In an ever changing twist, I'm going back home again for a few days for a friends birthday and we're going to a pirate themed night at an alternative/rock club... don't count on me dressing up! I always feel a bit odd at this club, where most girls are grown up scene kids or band t-shirt/fishnet fans and can't decide whether to go for the AA u-neck dress by it's self or with a red skirt over the top like here or super girly like here, or the above! 

April 30, 2008

corset creeping

If anyone's struggling with revision, just plant yourself in the library where there are no distractions apart from some furious typers or Facebook clickers! The girl next to me practically had steam coming from her fingers and the desk was shaking so I decided to take a few tips from Lala and The Clothes Horse and went off to take some sneaky photos. This is totally harder than it looks because you have to find an area where there's no one sitting, that has enough lighting and somewhere to sit the camera. I tried sitting long books flat on a shelf so they stuck out a bit and weighed the end down with a heavier book but there was never the right level and I ended up with lots of dodgy shots. In the end I found the perfect set of desks but all the photos came out with the wrong lighting apart from this one. It's also hard to just stand around looking busy when posing so that's why I'm admiring my (finally long) nails!

I decided to put the super ugly and shapeless with something tight and sexy and topped it off with the Paraphernalia red anatomic heart which got no end of stares. I may get a bit distressed when people stare at me if I think I look normal or nice, but it was funny to see loads of people just staring straight at it all day, I hope they were creeped out! My friends discussed it alot but I think it looks like a big strawberry! Also I wore a slip under the corset to reserve some modesty, it was the library after all!

Corset and slacks, H&M, vintage slip worn underneath, Topshop jacket with rolled up sleeves, Office silver bow flats, Paraphernalia heart necklace

April 29, 2008

sail away from my mind

I thought it was about time I got some new high waisted jeans since every time I looked at mine I thought about my expanding hips and how they just don't fit anymore. I pondered for a while, then just bit the bullet and placed a bid a little too high on a Miss Sixty 'Glenda' pair with a 50's feel. I thought they might not fit and knew I could always resell them. They arrived today and much to my delight they fit fine and came with a belt! Sadly they have a rip in them that wasn't mentioned in the auction. Did the seller think I wouldn't notice it? This must be one of those 'not meant to be' situations, I guess I'll go back to dresses!

April 28, 2008

sneaky security

Today my friend asked me how my strapless dresses never fall down during the day. I thought it was fairly obvious but it seems not; I just pin them to my bra! I used to just use safety pins on the inside of the dress and then discovered the best way is to subtly use a real pin or brooch to stop dresses from getting lower without noticing or anyone else realising how! I don't know about you but I've never found a strapless dress that actually stays put? I'm not risking an embarrassing flashing moment or having to continuously pull up all day! I'm turning my Summer investments to dresses too as I have pulled out all mine from last year and it's like getting new clothes all over again!

Also I'm loving the bargain huge £2 flowers in H&M at the moment, I hope they bring out more colours, although the yellow just doesn't suit me!

Luella di da

Did you know Luella Bartley is releasing a collection of hair accessories, namely hair bows? Neither did I! The confectionery inspired set of bows and ribbon clips will come in raspberry, yellow, bottle green, navy and orange, with a Luella heart in the centre. And there will be more collections to come!

Sadly the bands are £49 and the bows are £45. I'm quite fast with my hair accessories and would possibly move onto another hair hit within a week, or maybe I'd wear one everyday for a year. I can't decide, but when the time comes in July they're being sold in the London store and the Harvey Nichols concession. I'm hankering for raspberry and bottle green!

Also her beach/surf wear collection for O'Neill has been released and is pretty cute if you're into that sort of thing. I like the peace signs turned into hearts, and the shortie dungarees are attracting me in a worrying way!

April 27, 2008

heaven or heel

I totally admire bloggers like Rumi of Fashion Toast and Queen Michelle of KoS because they wear heels every day, and not just any old heels, they are super fierce heels! It's not uncommon either for a lithe Swedish blogger to wear an extremely short, tight skirt, or just a long t-shirt. I would love to do this and instantly upgrade an outfit to a more sartorial silhouette and gain greater posture and attitude but, with pain not being a factor as there are comfy pairs of shoes out there, I would never feel comfortable. This is simply because I don't want to attract unwanted attention from men. This doesn't define every case, I just know that if I swan around in heels with skirts or trousers, it will increase the risk of being perved on or receive cat calls. It might be fine if these were nice guys but it's older men who give that horrible stare that's just gross.

Maybe it's just culture here, or maybe the way you present yourself, the way you walk and the way you act can prevent these reactions, but I find heels look like I've tried harder to look nice, thus trying to attract male attention, even if I'm 100% not. Different styles or wearing masculine or baggy clothes seems to just provoke a reaction of someone out there. Do some men naturally think we have dressed nicely to attract them or are they just going about the rude way to show some appreciation? People in Manchester may know the horrible betting shop at the start of the Northern Quarter which always has load of men smoking outside. Most men are dignified and polite but there are those odd few out there. When I went back home a few weeks ago a random, weird man in a car stopped and said 'I haven't seen you in ages,' and just the other day my sister was followed all the way home by a man who said 'age didn't matter' and asked her to go see his house?!

I've gone off wearing heels in the daytime for the past few months but they're calling me back as cheapie flats have got to be just as bad for your feet. But as a girl it makes me feel uncomfortable to dress up in the day time and I don't want to expose myself to creepiness! Do you ignore it or tone it down? Or where you live does it not matter?